Emily Henderson of HGTV's Secrets From a Stylist used Benjamin Moore's Smoke Embers (No. 1466) in Ian Brennan's living room,

 Benjamin Moore's Gray Owl (2137-60) in the guest room,

 via HGTV and Emily's blog The Brass Petal

and a charcoal gray grasscloth in Ian's den/office.

Emily is funny, fresh, and terrific at putting together an 'undecorated' looking space.

But all that pales next to the fact that:

her loves some gray!